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Halle Says Her Oscar Win “Meant Nothing” Based On Roles People Of Color Still Aren’t Getting

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While sitting down with Teen Vogue editor-in-chief Elaine Welteroth at Cannes Lions International Festival of Creativity, Halle Berry talked openly and honestly about everything from growing up biracial and raising biracial children to her thoughts on activism and Black Lives Matter. But one topic from the conversation that stood out was hearing Berry’s thoughts on the progress Hollywood has or hasn’t made in terms of diversity since she won the Academy Award for Best Actress in 2002.

Halle Berry Oscar

More than 15 years since her win, Berry remains the only Black woman to take home that award, and when she thinks about that, along with the recent #OscarsSoWhite drama from 2015, 2016, Berry gets sad. And a little pissed off.

“It’s troubling to say the least,” she said to Welteroth. “And a few years ago, when we had the Oscars and there was a complete blackout for us, it was one of my lowest professional moments.”

According to the 50-year-old star, when she gave her moving speech after her history-making win for Monster’s Ball, it wasn’t something she had prepared. The desire for more inclusion when it comes to the roles being offered was on her mind when she said her win was “for every nameless, faceless woman of color that now has a chance because this door tonight has been opened.” There have indeed been more chances, as just this year alone, Viola Davis won the Best Supporting Actress Oscar for Fences, Ruth Negga was nominated for Best Actress for Loving and Octavia Spencer and Naomie Harris were given Best Supporting Actress nominations as well for Hidden Figures and Moonlight. Not to mention that quite a few men of color, including Mahershala Ali, director Barry Jenkins and Denzel Washington, either won or were nominated for an Academy Award in 2017. But for Berry, there could be and should be more chances every year.

“I sat there and I remember that speech and I remember how I don’t even know where that speech came from because I didn’t have a speech,” she said. “I was pretty sure Sissy Spacek was going to win. That just was what was ruminating in my spirit.  So two Oscars ago when we had that blackout, I sat there and I thought, ‘Wow, that moment really meant nothing. That meant nothing! I thought it meant something but I think that meant nothing.’ I was profoundly hurt by that and saddened by that.”

But she’s not just going to sit around and kick up a fuss about it. The actress said she’s now motivated and has also started to make the opportunities that she wants to see — for herself and others.

“It inspired me to try to get involved in other ways, which is why I want to start directing. I want to start producing more. I want to start being a part of making more opportunities for people of color,” Berry said. “I have conversation more deeply with Academy members in trying to figure out how to help and add more diversity into the Academy, this group which chooses who wins every year.  These kinds of groups have to start changing and we have to start becoming more conscious and more inclusive. And I think Black people, people of color, only have a chance to win based on how much product we’re allowed to put out. That says to me we need more people of color writing, directing, producing — not just starring. We have to start telling stories that include us, and if stories don’t include us, we have to start asking ‘Why can’t that be a person of color? Why can’t that White male character be a Black woman?’ We have to start pushing the envelope and ask these questions.”

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“When I Was Fat, I Wasn’t A Person”: Shonda Rhimes Didn’t Like Being “Gushed” Over After Losing 150 Pounds

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Actress Gabourey Sidibe recently stated that after having bariatric surgery and losing a great deal of weight, she started receiving all sorts of compliments from people, and she wasn’t really comfortable with it. As she told Refinery29, “My body actually has nothing to do with you. I don’t really need your support for it. It seems ill-placed.”

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She’s not the only woman to go through a weight-loss transformation and be unsettled by the sucrose-sweet things people have said to her only after dropping the pounds. Queen of TV Shonda Rhimes revealed that people have started treating her in a way that makes her feel as though she came into her own solely after losing weight — which she knows isn’t true.

“Women I barely knew gushed. And I mean GUSHED. Like I was holding-a-new-baby-gushed,” the 47-year-old Scandal creator wrote in her new Shondaland newsletter. “Only there was no new baby. It was just me. In a dress. With makeup on and my hair all did, yes. But…still the same me. In one of my same dresses (cause why am I gonna buy a NEW dress when I can take this to a seamstress and she can just make it smaller? Who am I, The Crown? No, I’m from the Midwest, baby, and I come with coupons). Women gushed anyway. And men? They spoke to me. THEY SPOKE TO ME. Like stood still and had long conversations with me about things. It was disconcerting. But even more disconcerting was that all these people suddenly felt completely comfortable talking to me about my body. Telling me I looked ‘pretty’ or that they were ‘proud of me’ or that ‘wow, you are so hot now’ or ‘you look amazing!'”

Yes, Rhimes lost nearly 150 pounds, and that’s amazing. But the attention paid to her body, according to her, has been a bit too much.

“I discovered that people found me valuable,” she said. “Worthy of conversation. A person one could look at. A person one could compliment. A person one could admire.”

“You heard me. I discovered that NOW people saw me as a PERSON,” she added. “What the hell did they see me as before? How invisible was I to them then? How hard did they work to avoid me? What words did they use to describe me? What value did they put on my presence at a party, a lunch, a discussion? When I was fat, I wasn’t a PERSON to these people. Like I had been an Invisible Woman who suddenly materialized in front of them. Poof! There I am. Thin and ready for a chat.”

But as Rhimes would go on to say, “being thinner doesn’t make you a different person. It just makes you thinner.”

This isn’t the first time Rhimes has spoken about people who treat her differently since slimming down. As she told Variety in 2015 while promoting her book, The Year of Yes, while she feels better since going on her weight-loss journey years ago, she still feels like and is the woman she’s always been.

“That has been a fascinating journey to watch other people deal with,” Rhimes said. “To me it’s just the outward example of everything else. You’re still exactly the same person, but to other people, it’s this huge thing that is very big for them. But for me, it’s the same thing. Except maybe I have a ton more energy.”

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Black Men Were Big Mad When They Thought Rihanna Was Dating A White Man

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There is this notion that after dealing with one two many Black f*ckboys--I specify because they do come in all colors-- Black women are turning to men of other races, specifically White men. So, when images of Rihanna kissing a lighter complected man surfaced, the assumption was that she had moved on to men of a lighter hue. After all, Rihanna's dating history includes the CEO of F*ckboy Inc., Chris Brown. But despite that irrefutable fact, Black men were none too pleased about the new development. This is so outlandish, I can't tell if this is sarcasm or not. But if this man is serious, with this logic, in what degree of brokenness do we find the Black woman's self esteem? Shook. Has there been any conclusive evidence that any of her Black love interests have been faithful? I mean, these fools were--and likely still are-- truly pressed. Yet, they want to call Black women bitter when we express our grievances, annoyances or whatever, seeing Black man after famous Black man choose White women. The hypocrisy is real as hell. Thankfully,though the uprising of hoteps who took issue with this new partnering were swiftly checked by the Black women who didn't have time for the bullsh*t. And while I'm sure it doesn't matter to these sect of butt hurt Black men, it is interesting to note that Rihanna's new boy toy is not White. According to the Daily Mail, Jameel is the deputy president and vice chairman of Abdul Latif Jameel, a family business and one of the biggest companies in the world. The company owns distribution rights for Toyota cars in Saudi Arabia and has amassed a fortune of $1.5 Billion, a fortune that Jameel is set to inherit. Last year, around the same time Rihanna and Drake seemed to be rekindling something, Jameel was seen canoodling with Naomi Campbell...but nothing definitive like these pictures with Rihanna. Either way, after this little bit of news broke, that was cause for celebration. AGAIN, kudos to Rihanna. May she continue to be blessed. Veronica Wells is the culture editor at MadameNoire.com. She is also the author of “Bettah Days.” You can follow her on Facebook and on Instagram and Twitter @VDubShrug.

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Want To Expand Your Business Beyond Black Consumers? Don’t Forget Loyal Customers

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This year the Black American buying power is expected to reach a whopping $1.3 trillion. With a figure like that you may ask yourself, why do most Black-owned companies seek to appeal to a broader base? According to branding and PR expert Karen Taylor Bass, CEO of TaylorMade Media, the answer is pretty simple: “It is the ultimate goal of an entrepreneur to increase their market share.”

“Black companies should absolutely outreach to the general marketplace to grow their business and brands,” she stated. “However, understanding and appreciating their core customer is rule number one.”

Looking beyond a niche market is actually a smart business move, said Jacqueline Rhinehart, founder of Organic Soul Marketing. But expanding to the general market also has to be done in a smart way. “Black-owned and serviced products should include a mainstream campaign when their products organically reach that audience — but never at the expense, literally or figuratively, of their initial core audience. The ‘reach’ should not be manufactured (by altering the brand or the product), or sought in a way that besmirches the original customer base.”

But not all Black companies know how to expand their base without leaving behind or insulting their core customer. This was the unfortunate situation the makers of SheaMoisture found themselves in earlier this year with they launched their “Hair hate” campaign which all Black women hated due to its attempt to equate white women’s hair issues with our own.

It had long been of dream of Sundial, the makers of SheaMoisture and Nubian Heritage, to reach a bigger market. Back in 2015 the CEO of Sundial talked of expansion with MadameNoire. “As a kid growing up, one of the brands I thought was tremendous was Karl Kani…and I don’t see Karl Kani today. I want to see SheaMoisture tomorrow,” declared Richelieu Dennis. “Once a company develops out of its consumer base you will often see a well-funded multinational company come in and take over that space. The Black-owned company either stays a niche company or just disappears. This is something we don’t want to happen…Now with this investment, it allows us to make moves that will keep this company in the family for another four generations and beyond. My goal is to have my children take over and their children and so on.”

Unfortunately, the most recent misstep by Sundial, valued at $700 million with annual revenues of about $200 million, wasn’t their only one. “SheaMoisture began market expansion back in 2015 and this is not the first controversy perpetuated by that decision. In February 2015, they faced a public backlash for featuring a Caucasian baby in its ads. That lesson should have been considered in future marketing strategy,” said Linda F. Williams, COO and founder Whose Apple Dynamic Coaching Services. “The company ignored lessons learned.”

Besides learning from failed promotions, companies should also learn from their core consumer. “No matter who owns a company, if and when they deem it time to broaden their target market, they should listen,” explained Thembisa S. Mshaka, award-winning advertising campaign writer and author of Put Your Dreams First, Handle Your [entertainment] Business. “Listen to their core market or make sure their communication doesn’t convey that they are being abandoned. Listen as they select agencies of record, to make sure they understand the nuances of making the choice to expand before they retain them to create and deliver a campaign.

“This is not ‘a Black thing,’ she added. “This is a business thing. We saw it with SheaMoisture and Pepsi’s Kylie Jenner ad. We saw it with Starbucks when they tried to discuss race with their ‘Race Together’ initiative. It is tone deafness that stems from ignorance, ego, isolated conversations that lack diversity of thought, an inability to listen before taking action, or some combination of all of the above.”

While Williams pointed out “Market expansion is fundamental in order for a company to thrive and remain relevant, she said companies should be more mindful of the old adage, ‘It’s now what you do. It’s how you do it.'”

The key is to be inclusive, Rhinehart added. “A great example of an advertising campaign/product integration activation, is the Carol’s Daughter ‘Mother/Daughter Makeover’ which included white women. Their TV spot included first the Black and POC (people of color) models and ended with one white model.”

There’s also an order companies need to follow when attempting to broaden their base and the first step is making sure their core audience is always remembered, recognized, and involved. “Key stakeholders must always think about the following: what is the brand? who is the target audience? how can we grow the niche and not offend our core consumers? As a Black woman entrepreneur and public relations expert, I am extremely thorough and thoughtful with the language and visuals used to promote a brand/business regardless of color/gender. I always ask for a seat at the table to brainstorm with the marketing team as it relates to the messaging of the product,” Taylor explained. “I over-stand that companies like SheaMoisture want to broaden their base, however, it is imperative that Black and brown marketers are involved in key decision-making as it relates to tier 1 branding, messaging and storytelling. No one understands the sensitivity of hair, skin, history like someone who has lived it first hand. A general market agency dropped the ball on that campaign and alienated the core base of Black women.”

The second step is to remember customers are only as loyal to you as you are to them.“Customer loyalty is an area in which SheaMoisture miserably failed,” noted Williams. “It led to what appears to be a mass exit by their core customers. Market expansion is achievable by developing a well-designed strategy that maintains company loyalty to its customers without appearing to abandon them in the process.”

Third, the expansion market strategy needs to be phased in.”In the case of SheaMoisture, a branding strategy should have been devised to diversify the product line to include products for different hair types. Even among women of color, textures differ. This expansion of the product line would have formed a transitional foundation for the market shift without alienating the customers who contributed to the company’s success,” Williams explained.

The bottom line is when consumers emotionally connect to products and companies, business is no longer just business, it’s personal. And no one likes to pushed aside for someone else.

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On Black Women With Childhood Scars On Their Knees

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So um, this topic is a bit strange but it is a thing…for Black women so I feel this is the place to talk about it.

Yesterday, I noticed that my sister retweeted this:

When I saw it, I didn’t think much of it. As a child, my sister, the “wild” one of the family, who’s not really all that wild, always managed to find herself involved in some type of accident. There was the time she was rushed to the hospital after she flew off the tire swing and we thought she’d broken her leg. There was the time she was scratched petting a “stray” cat in the neighborhood, the time she broke her hymen climbing the ladder to our bunk bed. (I can still hear that blood curdling scream.)

And then there was the accident that resulted in the scar on her knee. From what I can remember, we were in middle school. She was inside for a recreation period because it was apparently raining outside, where her class would have been had weather permitted. Inside, there just so happened to be a treadmill. My sister was running on it and then slipped, skinning both of her knees in the process.

I remember that even with almost daily applications of Coco Butter, it took forever for the skin to grow back, let alone for it to begin scarring. And when it finally did scar, the mark remained, dark at first and then fading slightly. But like I said, in my mind, my sister was just more clumsy than most people. Even today.

What I didn’t notice was the number of retweets, likes and comments the original status received.

26,000 retweets.
17,000 likes.
622 comments.

Black women were astonished to look down at their own knees and find that they, like Logan Browning, also had a scar on their knee.

If you delve into the stories, many of these Black women, like my sister, will tell you that they acquired these scars when they were young.

If you hadn’t gathered from this introduction, I don’t have a scar on my knee. And now that I think about it, it’s something I’m very proud of. And while that’s nothing to be proud of at all, I know where the feeling originates.

My mother and my grandmother.

Growing up, both my mother and grandmother warned my sister and I about keeping our legs unscathed. If we wanted to have pretty, smooth legs when we grew up, we were not to scar them up as little girls because the scars would remain…forevah (in my Cardi B. voice.)

Even as a child, I recognized that my mom and grandma were more dramatic than they needed to be; still, I took their words to heart. I enjoy my fair share of outdoor activity and sport. I ran track in middle school, played volleyball in high school etc. But I was careful.

Now, that I think about it, it wasn’t just because of my foremothers’ words, I saw proof of their warnings manifest.

One day, running down our cul-de-sac to a friend’s house, I tripped or stumbled or something and my body, propelled by my own speed, went sliding across the concrete. The incident resulted in three different scars, one on my wrist, one above my elbow and a much smaller and less severe one on my leg. Not my knee mind you. I was probably around ten when I collected those scars. And today, at nearly 30-years-old, you can still see remnants of the ones on my wrist and above my elbow.

The skin is flush with my own but the marks from that day remain.

This is what my momma and ‘n’em were talking about. They knew from experience from their own rough and tumble years that these things don’t go away. I know my mother has a deep gash in a back from some type of incident with a glass table. And my grandmother, who died in her eighties had a body that also bore marks of her journey on this earth.

I lied. This is not just a Black thing. White kids were just a rough and tumble as we were growing up. They too have scars…I just don’t recall seeing any of them. Perhaps our scars stay around longer or show up more prevalently on our darker skin. I’m no dermatologist and I can’t call it.

BuzzFeed wrote about this story and the reaction it received. And in the comment section, one person argued about the importance or necessity of the story. Like what was the point and purpose. There isn’t a large, life-changing one, other than unification.

We all know that our scars tell stories. For me, I know they remind me that some of those childhood memories really did happen. (I don’t know about you but my childhood memories can seem like a land of fantasy and make believe sometimes.) But this picture, the tweet and the response to it, also can serve as yet another way to unite Black women across a variety of regions and experience. And that’s also pretty cool.

Veronica Wells is the culture editor at MadameNoire.com. She is also the author of “Bettah Days.” You can follow her on Facebook and on Instagram and Twitter @VDubShrug.

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Check Out The Best & Boldest Fashion From The Bossip On WE Party In Atlanta

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On Tuesday, June 27, our brother site Bossip teamed up with WE tv to celebrate the upcoming premiere of their new series, Bossip on WE. The weekly series, similar to TMZ Live, will feature breaking news, all the gossip people are talking about and exclusives brought to you by the site's seasoned writers and editors. [caption id="attachment_835006" align="aligncenter" width="1068"]Bossip show Robin Marshall[/caption] There to take part in the celebration in Atlanta were many stars of reality TV who also came to take part in Bossip's "Best-Dressed List" awards. Familiar faces included Tiny, Toya Wright and daughter Reginae Carter, Sheree Whitfield, Kenya Moore, Cynthia Bailey and many, many more. They joined the cast of Bossip on WE, including editors Janee Bolden and Danielle "Dani" Canada, as well as executive producers Marve Frazier and Detavio Samuels. Because this is Atlanta we're talking about, you know the fashion was unique. We're talking a lot of black, but also a lot of color, textures and, of course, all of the designer labels you can think of on belts, bags and shades. Check out the best and most interesting style from last night's party, and be sure to tune into the Bossip show Bossip on WE on Thursday, July 6 when it premieres on WE tv at 10 p.m. [caption id="attachment_834986" align="aligncenter" width="650"]Bossip show Robin Marshal[/caption]

Toya Wright

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Tameka "Tiny" Harris

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Reginae Carter

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Kenya Moore

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Zonnique Pullins

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Tammy Rivera

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Cynthia Bailey

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Rasheeda Frost

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Karlie Redd

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Mimi Faust

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Towanda Braxton

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Trina Braxton

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Sheree Whitfield

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Quad Webb-Lunceford

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Adiz "Bambi" Benson

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Jasmine Burke

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Shirlene "Ms. Juicy" King Pearson

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12 Ways To Wear Your Love For The 4th

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While a lot of us may have mixed feelings about patriotism as African Americans, one thing we're certain about is we love Fourth of July cookouts and having a day off. Even if we don't run around screaming, "I love America," plenty of us let our clothes do the talking for us, rocking outfits in shades of red, white, and blue with more stars and stripes than we'd wear any other time of the year. We're not mad at it. In fact, we sort of love it, which is why we're helping you out with this list of ways to show your love for the forth, from bedazzled face jewels to sports bras and bathing and body suits. Here are our picks for cute ways to show your American pride this coming fourth.

Old Navy Go-Dry Racerback Medium Support Sports Bra for Women ($9.97)

Faye Star Sequin Fray Hem Denim Shorts-$36

Unique Vintage 1950s High Waist Stars & Stripes Flag Swing Skirt-$78

This Is Me Living The Dream T-Shirt-$23.95

Stars and Stripes Baseball Cap-$9.90

Star Shape Face Jewels-$4.90

Old Navy Go-Dry Cool Semi-Fitted Mesh Racerback Tank for Women ($12)

Bikini Lab Reversible Stars Stripes Swimsuit-$67

Studio One Twenty Stars Bodysuit-$103.20

Sequin USA Star Tank-$42

Maya Stars And Stripes Denim Skirt-$30

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Did Brandy Split From Her New Man? 9 Other Times She’s Tried Her Hand At Love

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[caption id="attachment_835017" align="aligncenter" width="1068"]Brandy Sir the Baptist WENN[/caption] In May it came out that Brandy was dating hip-hop artist Sir the Baptist, and while there was initially speculation about it, they got more and more comfortable putting their PDA on display on social media: https://www.instagram.com/p/BUKu6QxltAR/?taken-by=sirthebaptist&hl=en But just as fast as it got going, people are now wondering if it's already over. Why? Because Brandy posted this message on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/BV3vOrkFoCy/?taken-by=4everbrandy&hl=en It should also be mentioned that Brandy deleted all of the pictures and videos she had on her profile that promoted his music or that just featured the two together. There is no sign of him now. As for Sir the Baptist, images of Brandy and their relationship still remain on his page. It's no secret that Brandy, like many of us, hasn't had the best luck at love. At one point, despite formerly being engaged, the 38-year-old singer said she didn't see herself getting married. But before that comment, she sought advice for making relationships work because she said she did indeed want to tie the knot and find her forever love. "I have had my heart broken to pieces," she told The Daily Helpline in 2015. "But I just want to know the secret of making it work, cause time is ticking. I’m 35, and I’m trying to one day get to the next level. The next level! You know? Like marriage one day? Help me." With that being said, check out the singer's history with love over the years. We're still rooting for her to find her Mr. Right. It just wasn't any of these guys. [caption id="attachment_835018" align="aligncenter" width="650"]Brandy boyfriends Getty[/caption]

Kobe Bryant

While most of us just saw the burgeoning hoop star and singer go to to his prom together, in 1996, she had a brief relationship with him. In the image above, they were captured at the premiere for the film Eraser hand in hand. [caption id="attachment_835019" align="aligncenter" width="1068"]Brandy boyfriends WENN[/caption]

Wanya Morris

While they kept it on the low, a young Brandy and Boyz II Men's Wanya Morris dated, and he was her first love. They previously collaborated on the remix to her hit, "Brokenhearted." Morris reportedly broke up with her right before her 19th birthday, claiming he'd fallen in love with another woman. [caption id="attachment_835020" align="aligncenter" width="1068"]Brandy boyfriends Getty[/caption]

Usher

Brandy reportedly dated Usher briefly, who was also super popular at the time, back in 1998. He previously appeared on her old UPN show Moesha as love interest and classmate Jeremy Davis in Season 3 and 4. [caption id="attachment_835021" align="aligncenter" width="1068"]Brandy boyfriends WENN.com[/caption]

Mase

While she was putting together her album Never Say Never, Brandy briefly dated Bad Boy rapper Mase. He appeared on her hit song, "Top of the World." [caption id="attachment_835022" align="aligncenter" width="1066"] Getty[/caption]

Robert Smith

In 2001, Brandy started dating producer Robert "Big Bert Smith." They kept their relationship out of the spotlight until 2002, when the singer became pregnant. They welcomed daughter Sy'rai, and on their reality show, Brandy: Special Delivery shared the pregnancy and their relationship, which they were framing as a marriage. A year after Sy'rai was born, they called it quits, and years later, Smith would reveal that they were never legally married. They told that tale in the hopes of keeping her public image pristine. [caption id="attachment_786207" align="aligncenter" width="1068"] WENN[/caption]

Quentin Richardson

Another serious relationship, Brandy was engaged to the former NBA star, and their engagement lasted 15 months. She even got a tattoo of his face on her back, but when things ended, she had the ink changed. [caption id="attachment_835023" align="aligncenter" width="1068"]Brandy boyfriends Getty[/caption]

Flo Rida

In 2010, Brandy dated rapper Flo Rida, and even talked about their relationship on her VH1 reality show, Brandy and Ray J: A Family Business. She broke up with him, but he quickly, and briefly, moved on with model Eva Marcille. [caption id="attachment_835024" align="aligncenter" width="1068"] Getty[/caption]

Terrence Jenkins

The actor and former co-host of 106 & Park dated Brandy after her relationship ended with Flo Rida. They were seen court side together at an NBA game and hit up an event or two as a pair. He, like Flo Rida, would move on to a model -- Selita Ebanks. [caption id="attachment_835025" align="aligncenter" width="1068"] Getty[/caption]

Ryan Press

Another serious relationship, Brandy and music exec Ryan Press were engaged in 2012. By 2014, they called it quits, to many people's surprise. As she told us in 2015 about that split, "This last heartbreak was really hard, you know what I mean? It’s time. I just made a decision that even through heartbreak, you have to affirm that all will be well and in time you will feel better. And I feel better. I feel great! I feel strong. And I love it. I want everyone to feel strong because that’s when you can do it all–when you feel like you can."

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Jamal Bryant Held In Contempt Of Court, Ordered To Pay Son’s Medical Bills

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Pastor Jamal Bryant’s private life has gotten him in all types of public trouble. His promiscuity ended his marriage, led to allegations that he impregnated a 17-year-old girl and, most recently, involved him in a custody and child support battle with Latoya Shawntee Odom, the mother of his youngest child.

In 2015, Odom sued Bryant demanding child support. Bryant acknowledged that the child was his and said that he had been paying child support, in an attempt to handle matters outside of court. But when Odom kept harassing him, he stopped making payments and left it up to a judge to decide.

Naturally, Odom took issue with the lack of support and found it particularly insulting that Bryant was living a life of luxury.

In November, the two reached a settlement. Odom was awarded primary physical custody and Bryant was given visitation. The amount of child support was sealed from the public but he was ordered to pay $13,500 in Odom’s legal expenses.

Last summer, I asked whether or not Pastor Bryant should take some time away from the pulpit to get his life back in order. Since that time, I really haven’t kept up with his whereabouts.

But last night, there was a bit of an update. According to The Jasmine Brand, Odom raised claims stating that Bryant had failed to pay child support on time, failed to provide medical and life insurance and failed to pay 75 percent of the uninsured medical expenses as he had been ordered to do.

As a result, she asked that Bryant be held in contempt of court.

Bryant responded pleading with the judge not to throw him in jail, saying he did not disobey the court order.

The judge found that he was in contempt, ruling that while Bryant did pay child support in a timely manner, he did not obtain medical and life insurance for his child and did not cover his portion of the uninsured medical expenses.

The judge ruled that Bryant pay $3,258.31 to purge himself of contempt.

 

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Eat Your Heart Out, Charlamagne: While You Were Sleeping, Lil Mama Had A Major Glo Up

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[caption id="attachment_835050" align="aligncenter" width="1068"]Lil Mama PNP/WENN[/caption] Lil Mama has come a long way from her "Lip Gloss" days. Can you believe that was 10 years ago?! The 27-year-old rapper, who started out with a lot of love from the people, has been talked about pretty poorly over the years. After crashing the VMA stage when Jay Z and Alicia Keys performed "Empire State of Mind" in 2009, people have gone out of their way to discredit her. They've said she looks like fellow rapper Bow Wow and even call her by his name, they've tried to trash any music she puts out, and who could forget her infamous interview with Charlamagne tha god when he insulted not only her talent but her looks? Speaking on the ridicule she's received over the years since she admittedly embarrassed herself on the VMA stage, Lil Mama told Complex in 2015 that she's gone through a lot emotionally. "It hurt," she said. "It took a lot of mental strength, spiritual strength, and physical strength, not to want to hurt others, not to want to hurt myself. A person could be damn near suicidal." But Lil Mama is coming out from the other side of the hateeration/holleration, and she's looking amazing while doing so. Now going by her real name, Niatia, she's starred in the TV One biopic When Love Kills: The Falicia Blakely Story and the movie Born in The Game, flexing her acting chops after making her debut in CrazySexyCool: The TLC Story in 2013. She has also become a red carpet mainstay. With the help of stylists Tyler Jacob, Michael Mann and Stacy K. Marie, she's done a style 360. [caption id="attachment_835051" align="aligncenter" width="1068"]Lil Mama WENN[/caption] Check out more of her style transformation and know that Lil Mama isn't so "lil" anymore. https://www.instagram.com/p/BVduVkvF4e2/?taken-by=lilmama&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BV51_kIFHPS/?taken-by=lilmama&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BVzWnktFp_y/?taken-by=lilmama&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BVvsBEXl-fY/?taken-by=lilmama&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BVsbXo-lT-p/?taken-by=lilmama&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BVoor8HlVEv/?taken-by=lilmama&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BVnWlhxlqmO/?taken-by=lilmama&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BReDX2jldbG/?taken-by=lilmama&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BSZN-WcF7FA/?taken-by=lilmama&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BQ5MFGOlD6f/?taken-by=lilmama&hl=en NEXT PAGE https://www.instagram.com/p/BQomxAvl2jJ/?taken-by=lilmama&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BQZz9K1Buyv/?taken-by=lilmama&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BQnuGoiFEfp/?taken-by=lilmama&hl=en

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Have Y’all Noticed Fantasia’s Been Slaying The ‘Gram Lately?

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[caption id="attachment_834511" align="alignnone" width="1068"] VH1 Hip Hop Honors: 'All Hail The Queens' held at the David Geffen Hall - Arrivals
Featuring: Fantasia
Where: New York City, New York, United States
When: 11 Jul 2016
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Credit: Derrick Salters/WENN.com

Anyone who's followed Fantasia's career over the past 13 years knows the singer has had her share of ups and downs. Professionally, her vocals and her career have always been tiptop, but personally, Fantasia has overcome a failed suicide attempt, an abortion, and, like many of us, messy, disappointing loves. But today you don't see a hint of that past pain on the 32 year old's face. In fact, since she and her husband Kendall Taylor reunited, the mother of two has been all smiles -- and all slayage. Just a quick peek through Fanny's 'gram reveals a woman in love, with herself. A woman who is taking care of her body and showing off her hard work every chance she gets. A woman basking in the blessings of answering her calling. A woman we love to see winning. Click through to see the way Fantasia's been shining over the past month. https://www.instagram.com/p/BVnWQr_lt-w/?taken-by=tasiasword&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BVhaCgNlV9L/?taken-by=tasiasword&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BVdF6udFMRo/?taken-by=tasiasword&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BVVEC4lh0MT/?taken-by=tasiasword&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BVTOPQIFMV9/?taken-by=tasiasword&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BVKRbqCF7Wz/?taken-by=tasiasword&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BURyTQXltZF/?taken-by=tasiasword&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BVavSKHFB-8/?taken-by=tasiasword&hl=en https://www.instagram.com/p/BVh4onEFnBb/?taken-by=tasiasword&hl=en

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Kendall And Kylie Jenner Catching Hell For Transposing Their Faces Over Biggie And Tupac

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I don’t know what I can say about the Kardashian family and their obsession and theft of Black culture that hasn’t already been said and said again. They imitate and emulate Black women’s features and most recently designs from their clothing lines and they attach themselves to Black men in order to get more shine and attention. They exploit Black pain to sell caffeinated beverages.

It’s all a hot mess.

Most of us have peeped game.

And just when you think they’ve done the worst that they’re going to do, something else happens that makes you wonder if they live their lives with the intent to troll Black folks.

I say that because the most recent stunt is just too unbelievable for words.

The Jenner sisters, Kylie and Kendall have transposed their images over two or our most beloved icons, fallen rappers Tupac and Biggie for their vintage t-shirt line.

For those who aren’t sure what’s going on here, that’s an Instagram picture of Kylie pasted over an image of Tupac. And another of Kendall dressed in a suit, over an image of Biggie.

Not only was it a bad idea to literally cover two of our favorites, I can’t understand the logic behind it.

How did that meeting go? Knowing the reputation they have in this industry, how does someone approve, let alone create an image where a White woman is pushed to the forefront at the expense of a Black man? Who heard that concept and thought brilliant?

Then the shirts are selling for $125.

As you might imagine, the reaction from both Black and White people was intense.


If you’re able to find the words, let us know what you make of all this.

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She Tried It! THINX’s New Period-Proof Training Shorts

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In May, popular company Thinx, known for its unconventional take on feminine hygiene products and protection, hipped us all to their newest offering — training shorts.

Thinx shorts

After the success of their period-proof underwear, they introduced the shorts, meant to help you continue to be active without the use of bulky pads and sometimes unreliable tampons during your period. The shorts are said to be capable of holding up to two tampons worth of blood in their built-in underwear, which have a unique four-layer technology meant to keep you dry and help you avoid leaks wherever you get your workout on at.

It sounds good, but do they work?

I actually had the chance to test a pair of the $65 shorts recently, and it was a very interesting experience. I wore the black bottoms on the third day of my seven-day period to the forest preserve near my parents’ home on a particularly hot day. With it being close to 90 degrees, I was skeptical about how the shorts would hold up in the heat and with all the sweat I knew I was going to work up during my run. I walked for about 10 minutes, taking in how I felt in the shorts and getting used to them before I finally took off running for about 40 minutes.

While the underwear inside of the shorts gave me no trouble, I have to admit that the shorts’ “body flattering cut” was a little too short for me. I wore a size large, and for the record, I’m almost 6’0″ tall. When I started running, I found myself feeling a bit underdressed because the legs of the shorts kept riding up. A majority of my thigh was exposed while running, and with it being a forest preserve with older men and women present, I felt like I was doing too much. Still, many running bottoms on the market are meant to be that short, and again, I’m tall, so that’s not a knock to Thinx.

Despite all of that, the shorts didn’t disappoint when it came down to what they were made to do — prevent leaking and keep you comfortable. The underwear’s four-layer technology kept me dry inside of the shorts, which is something you just don’t get with traditional cotton panties during any workout (on your period or not). With that being said, while I did bleed in the shorts, nothing ever came through or out, this even after I stopped running, drove to the store, walked around Wal Mart, got back in the car and headed home. I say all that to state that even with all of my different types of moving (sitting, standing, walking, running), I was protected. However, all bodies and flows are made different, so if you know you bleed very heavily (which I don’t past a certain point) for the entirety of your menstrual cycle, the company understands if you want to wear their products in conjunction with whatever feminine hygiene product you’re most comfortable with.

After my test of the shorts, I came to the conclusion that they do work, but would work best for me on days when I do strength training, stationary cardio machines or yoga. Call me prudish, but I just don’t want my long legs and thick thighs stopping traffic (or thirsty men) when all I’m trying to do is get in a jog. But just because they’re not my style in terms of cut doesn’t mean they won’t be perfect for others. Overall, they are very comfy and allow you the chance to not worry about what’s going on down there when you’re being active. And any peace of mind a woman can get during her period, not to mention freedom, is worth a try.

 

 

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9 Bags Under $50 That Are Perfect For A Summer Weekend Getaway

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weekend getaway bags Going somewhere? Considering its Summer and everyone is on the move this season we're going to assume that answer is yes. This is the time of year when vacations go up and hibernation goes down, and chances are you're so anxious to bask in the sun you're not just waiting for a week-long getaway abroad to pack up and go, you're visiting friends on the weekend, renting cars with bae for a quick road trip, and taking a quick drive to a beach house every chance you can get. Quick getaways are the name of the game and the last thing you need dragging you down when you're ready for a spontaneous trip is a clunky, boxy suitcase. You need a weekend getaway bag that'll help you pack light and bounce from place to place. Here are nine of them in adorable prints that scream summer, and at less than $50, you'll still have money left over for your excursion.

Deux Lux Island Weekender-$39.99

Black And Coral Geometric Weekender Bag-$15.98

Float Your Boat Tan Weekender Bag-$49

Jessica Simpson Navy Freedom Weekender-$47.99

Bueno of California Double Handle Weekend Bag-$44.97

Luv Betsey Cruisn Quilted Weekender-$34.99

Kipling Zaliki Duffel Tote-$49.99

Deux Lux XO Weekender-$43.50

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All The Black Women The Academy Added To Their Ranks

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[caption id="attachment_835077" align="aligncenter" width="1068"] WENN[/caption] Cheryl Boone Isaacs (AMPAS president) Image via WENN I believe we all distinctly remember #OscarsSoWhite. And while 2014 and 2015 wer terrible years in terms of the Academy's overall image, behind the scenes the group, likely at the charge of Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences (AMPAS) president Cheryl Boone Isaacs, was working to address the diversity issue. According to The Hollywood Reporter, in 2015, they extended invitations to 322 making a concentrated effort to involve more people of color and women. In 2016, they more than doubled the number with 683 invitations. And this year, they sent out 774. The Academy boasts that this year they invitees include people from 7 different countries, is 39 percent female and 30 percent people of color. And among the number are a group of Black women many of us have been watching on the screen or unknowingly admiring their work behind it. Check out the invitees on the following pages. Zoe Kravitz Black Image via WENN

Zoë Kravitz

With roles in Mad Max Fury Road, Divergent, After Earth and most memorable for me Dope, this young lady with a bloodline steeped in Hollywood has several decades to show off her talent. Maya Rudolph Image via WENN

Maya Rudolph

It's nice to see the Academy giving this look not only to a Black woman but also someone whose work is almost exclusively comedic. While I've seen Rudolph do more serious pieces, we know her for the funny. Comedy, likely the hardest thing to do well in entertainment, gets the short end of the stick when it comes to recognition. Hopefully, Rudolph will be able to use her voice to change this. Image via WENN

Debbie Allen

You know inclusion is an issue when Debbie Allen, who's had and is still having one of thee most illustrious, multi-faceted and meaningful careers in the industry, is just now getting the recognition she deserves. A pitiful shame. I don't have to run down the list of her accomplishments, we all know she can do, has done and is still doing it all.  Image via WENN

Phylicia Rashad

Another legend in the game, who has appeared in television, on Broadway, and behind the camera, as a producer, in some culturally relevant and game-changing pieces of art. Janelle Monae Image via WENN

Janelle Monae

I guess this is an instance of favor ain't fair. Janelle Monae is certainly a new and emerging voice in the film industry. But the girl was smart, she picked the perfect projects to debut her acting talents, including the film that won Best Picture for 2016 Moonlight and Hidden Figures.  Image via WENN

Ruth Negga

Ruth can tick off quite a few boxes on the diversity checklist. She's Black, she's a woman and she was born in Ethiopia. (There goes one of those 7 countries.) Not only that, her portrayal of Mildred Loving got people talking. Image via WENN

Naomie Harris

While there was a lot of buzz around her last year for her portrayal in Moonlight, Naomie is not new to this. I first noticed her talent when she memorably played Winnie Madikizela-Mandela in Mandela: Long Walk to Freedom, alongside Idris Elba back in 2013. Also, Harris is from the UK, so there's another point for her. [caption id="attachment_726051" align="aligncenter" width="1068"] Credit: Apega/WENN.com[/caption] Image via WENN

Wanda Sykes

Happy to see another Black woman comedian on the list. Y'all know what Wanda's done. Mad voiceovers, including one in Rio, which I love. She was Jane Fonda's hilarious assistant in Monster in Law, which I also love, she's Daphne on "black-ish" and her comedy specials which are often Emmy-nominated. While she has 7 noms under her belt, the one she did win comes from writing on "The Chris Rock Show."

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Leslie Jones

Aside from the online harassment, who's having a better year than Leslie Jones? Blessings keep falling in her lap. And after grinding for decades, at 49, she more than deserves these looks.

Kimberly Hardin

You may not recognize the name but Kimberly Hardin is the woman who has cast films like 2 Fast 2 Furious, Hustle & Flow, Cadillac Records, Black Snake Moan, which was such a good story, Next Friday, Think Like A Man and more. The woman is no joke.

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Issa Is Single And Going Through A “Ho Phase” In Season 2 Of Insecure [Trailer]

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After the teaser gave us a pretty brief glimpse at what to expect in the next chapter of the saga of Issa, Molly, Lawrence (played by Issa Rae, Yvonne Orji and Jay Ellis) and co., an official trailer has been released today to give you a better idea at what you will see in Season 2. Get excited because the preview alone left us cackling.

Insecure Season 2

In the two-minute clip we see Issa trying to return to the dating scene, begrudgingly. She wants Lawrence back, but as you’ll recall from the end of Season 1, we last saw him getting his rocks off with bank teller Tasha after leaving our protagonist for stepping out with old flame Daniel. So Issa is trying to put herself out there. She is going on dates, while at the same time, hoping that after giving Lawrence some space, they can pick up where they left off.

As for Molly, she looks to be having a little bit more luck at love the second time around, but not when it comes to work. Despite being one of the top lawyers at her firm, she finds out that a white male colleague at the same office and on a similar level gets paid more than her.

The dilemmas for both ladies are big, but per the usual, they are handled with a huge dose of hilarity. That includes Issa deciding to go through a “ho phase” to mutual friend Kelli trying to comfort Molly by telling her she shorts her White clients on their tax returns as a form of reparations. Comedy.

Check out the trailer below, and be sure to check out the premiere of Season 2 on July 23 at 10:30 p.m. (right after Ballers) on HBO.

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Some Of Nike’s Best Sports Bras Are On Sale! Here Are 5 Must-Haves

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Of all the sports bras I’ve bought over the last few years as I’ve gone through the ups and downs of my fitness journey (those ups and downs include cup sizes), I only use about three or four consistently. A majority of those are Nike bras. The reason for that is because they are usually the most heavy duty. They can take me through six-mile runs, hold me down in dance classes or provide just enough support but a lot of comfort when I’m in yoga. And no, they’re not the cheapest, but sometimes you have to pay more for great quality.

But guess what? You don’t have to pay an arm and a leg right now for a great Nike sports bra because a pretty awesome collection is currently on sale on Nike.com. A few of them are in my collection, so trust me when I say that they are must-haves. That includes maximum support bras, padded bras for a little less tight compression and light joints for less intense exercise or athleisure wear. Check out five of our favorites that you can currently get for a pretty good price.

Nike sports bras

Nike Rival Fade $57

A maximum support bra that usually costs more than $75, it’s perfect for running, HIIT training and team sports.

Nike Fierce $35

Great for medium-impact activities like cardio classes and cycling.

Nike sports bras

Nike Classic Padded Graphic Bra $35

A go-to for running, strength training and your everyday gym workout. The padding is removable if it’s not your thing.

Nike Indy Cool $40

A low-impact bra, this bra is just enough support without being restricting when you do yoga, Pilates and barre.

Nike Seamless $40

This low-impact option is seamless so it looks amazing under your tops (bye back fat) when you’re doing light training.

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About Time: A Black Woman Is Heading Inclusion & Diversity At Twitter

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Lord knows Twitter has had its fair share of struggles when it comes to issues of diversity. Most clear in my mind was the way George Zimmerman was allowed to terrorize the community, posting pictures of Trayvon Martin’s dead body, with no repercussions or the way Milo Yiannopoulos taunted Leslie Jones for weeks on end with no consequences.

But thankfully, they’ve recognized that something’s got to change.

And the company has hired Candi Castleberry-Singleton as the new vice president of diversity and inclusion for the social media company.

The hire is an attempt for Twitter’s workforce to better reflect its user demographics. And y’all the power and relevance of Black Twitter cannot be overstated.

Until Castleberry-Singleton was hired the position was occupied by White men.

Groundbreaking.

According to USA Today, Castleberry-Singleton comes to Twitter having occupied a similar position at Motorola and Sun Microsystems.

In regards to the new gig, Castleberry-Singleton said, “I’m so excited to join the team at Twitter to lead inclusion and diversity efforts for employees and the Twitter community. I look forward to bringing what I’ve learned to Twitter.”

With Twitter’s users being 28 percent Black and dominating so many of the internet’s conversations, we’re happy Candi is stepping into the party. She’s long overdue.

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Black Women Are The Catalyst For Jay-Z’s Growth On 4:44

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  Last night, I was falling asleep to a movie when my sister announced that Jay-Z's album 4:44 had dropped. Like I said, I was half sleep but even if I weren't such news likely wouldn't make me jump up and listen immediately. One, sleep is very important to me. And two, while I will always argue that me and my sisters' lives were enriched when our father found The Black Album outside in the grass while he was walking our late dog, everything else from him since then hasn't had the same effect on me. But about an hour later, I hear like these repetitious, siren-like, almost wailing vocals. Even in my sleep, I was trying to figure out what the hell was going on. Who was hurt? Still, I woke up slowly. I might have even drifted back to sleep. But then I started hearing lyrics in REM. And I asked myself, "Jay-Z's mom is a lesbian?" Huh? That was it. I shot off the floor (y'all I was sleeping on the floor) and asked my sister what was I hearing. Her eyes got big, she shook her head from side to side and her only verbal response was "Girl." And in that moment, I knew that for at least the third time, in the past five years, one half of the Carter couple had changed the game...again. Today, perhaps you'll read a lot of headlines about Jay-Z spilling tea. And that's certainly one way to look at it. There is a lot of juicy information but more importantly, the album is about growth and development, from a man who has consistently-- and is still referring to himself as the "god MC." It's an album about feuding within the Black family, within the Black community. It's about support of Black business and a reminder to spend our money wisely, like wisely enough to actually be able to leave something to our children. It's aspirational and inspirational for all of us to say the least. But most importantly, to me, 4:44  edifies, apologizes to, acknowledges and uplifts Black women in a way we don't often see in Hip Hop. I tweeted last night. We'll discuss the role of Black women in various songs on the following pages. Jay-Z Image via WENN

Kill Jay-Z

Jay-Z sat down with iHeart Radio and offered brief explanations to all the songs. And for this one, he says, " It’s really about the ego. It’s about killing off the ego, so we can have this conversation in a place of vulnerability and honesty."He mentions his daughter first. And you know better, nigga, I know you do But you gotta do better, boy, you owe it to Blue You had no father, you had the armor But you got a daughter, gotta get softer Die JAY-Z, this ain't back in the days You don't need an alibi, JAY-Z Cry JAY-Z, we know the pain is real But you can't heal what you never reveal Solange

Solange

That read like more than enough. But he went even deeper. You egged Solange on Knowin' all along, all you had to say you was wrong At this point, if you follow either Solange or Beyoncé on Instagram, you could see that the three have come to some type of resolution. But chile, the way n*ggas was calling Solange crazy, like insane for defending her sister, this public acknowledgment is much needed.

Ciara

I don't even know what you woulda done In the future, other niggas playin' football with your son You had lost it Somebody give Ciara a high five. I don't know if this was his intention, but I know I certainly took this as a jab to all the Black men on Twitter who tried their damnedest to shame Ciara for moving on with her life and allowing her new man to get to know her son. These are the same men who had absolutely nothing to say when Future's own womanizing caused his relationship with yet another one of his baby mommas to end. This time, shortly after their son was born. This is the potential price of being out here when you're supposed to be in a committed relationship. Beyonce pregnancy Image via WENN

Beyoncé

You almost went Eric Benét Let the baddest girl in the world get away I don't even know what else to say Nigga, never go Eric Benét Guffaw, y'all. If this ain't updated and accurate! Just don't do it. The lyric was made even more iconic not only when Eric Benet started trending on Twitter, but when he took time to respond to it. [caption id="attachment_612283" align="aligncenter" width="378"]Has Your Opinion Of The O.J. Simpson Case Changed Since 1995 Source: AP Images[/caption] Image via AP Images

The Story of O.J.

This is not so much women as it is about the community, the trivial things that are important to us, the way we spend our money on products that don't uplift the community. But it is important to note that several of the features on this album are women. And for this one it's Nina Simone. Not only do her vocals, a sample from "Four Women" (peep that!), a cartoon in her likeness is also featured in the animated video accompanying the song. Gotta have to Tidal to watch it. Image via WENN

Smile

What I was hearing in my sleep about Jay-Z's mom being a lesbian was correct. And in the song "Smile" we learn about the ways in which regal-voiced Gloria Carter sacrificed herself and the fullness of her identity. Mama had four kids, but she's a lesbian Had to pretend so long that she's a thespian Had to hide in the closet, so she medicate Society shame and the pain was too much to take Cried tears of joy when you fell in love Don't matter to me if it's a him or her I just wanna see you smile through all the hate Marie Antoinette, baby, let 'em eat cake The song ends with an outro from Gloria Carter herself. Living in the shadow Can you imagine what kind of life it is to live? In the shadows people see you as happy and free Because that's what you want them to see Living two lives, happy, but not free You live in the shadows for fear of someone hurting your family or the person you love The world is changing and they say it's time to be free But you live with the fear of just being me Living in the shadow feels like the safe place to be No harm for them, no harm for me But life is short, and it's time to be free Love who you love, because life isn't guaranteed Smile [caption id="attachment_698939" align="aligncenter" width="469"]Beyonce and Jay Z Splash[/caption] Image via Splash 

4:44

This is the wailing I was hearing in my sleep. And it makes sense because this song deals with pain. In his interview with iHeart, Jay-Z says: ‘4:44’ is a song that I wrote, and it’s the crux of the album, just right in the middle of the album. And I woke up, literally, at 4:44 in the morning, 4:44 AM, to write this song. So it became the title of the album and everything. It’s the title track because it’s such a powerful song, and I just believe one of the best songs I’ve ever written." And this ladies and gentlemen is what we've been waiting for. Like, "The O.J. Story," this one also starts off with a female vocalist. It's interesting to note that now that we know Jay-Z's mom is gay, Kim Burrell, who has been ghost since her hate-fueled comments, provides background vocals for the track. Elsewhere, there are also vocals from Hannah Williams. The whole song is an apology, a reckoning of wrongs done. Which is why people are calling it the response to Lemonade. It's a fair assessment. Since every single word is of importance, I'll share all three verses below. Personally, I'm thankful for it. Shortly after Lemonade was released, Jay-Z had a verse on DJ Khaled song that said, "You know you made it when the fact/Your marriage made it is worth millions/Lemonade is a popular drink and it still is..." I heard it and I thought, that's how you're going to respond? It wasn't enough. "4:44" gives the real, spills that tea that people are talking about. But again, represents the growth and the maturity it takes to publicly acknowledge your wrongs when your private business has become public. Do I find it so hard When I know in my heart I'm letting you down everyday Letting you down everyday Why do I keep on running away? [Verse 1: JAY-Z] Look, I apologize, often womanize Took for my child to be born See through a woman's eyes Took for these natural twins to believe in miracles Took me too long for this song I don't deserve you, I harass you out in Paris Please come back to Rome, you make it home We talked for hours when you were on tour Please pick up the phone, pick up the phone Said: "Don't embarrass me," instead of "Be mine" That was my proposal for us to go steady That was your 21st birthday, you mature faster than me I wasn't ready, so I apologize I've seen the innocence leave your eyes I still mourn this death, I apologize for all the stillborns 'Cause I wasn't present, your body wouldn't accept it I apologize to all the woman whom I Toyed with you emotions because I was emotionless I apologize 'cause at your best you are love And because I fall short of what I say I'm all about Your eyes leave with the soul that your body once housed And you stare blankly into space Thinkin' of all the time you wasted in on all this basic shit So I apologize [Chorus: Hannah Williams] I'm never gonna treat you Never gonna treat you like I should [Verse 2: JAY-Z] I apologize, our love was one for the ages and I contained us And all this ratchet shit and we more expansive now Meant to cry and die alone in these mansions Or sleep with our back turned We're supposed to vacay 'til our backs burn We're supposed to laugh 'til our hearts stops And then we end a space with a dark stop And let love light the way Like the men before me, I cut off my nose to spite my face I never wanted another woman to know Something about me that you didn't know I promised, I cried, I couldn't hold I suck at love, I think I need a do-over I will be emotionally available if I invited you over I stew over what if you over my shit? [Chorus: Hannah Williams] I'm never gonna treat you Never gonna treat you like I should [Verse 3: JAY-Z] And if my children knew, I don't even know what I would do If they ain't look at me the same I would prob'ly die with all the shame "You did what with who?" What good is a ménage à trois when you have a soulmate? "You risked that for Blue?" If I wasn't a superhero in your face My heart breaks for the day I had to explain my mistakes And the mask goes away and Santa Claus is fake And you go online and see For Blue's tooth, the tooth fairy didn't pay In-credible. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M47ZBsslUh8

Family Feud

This is my absolute favorite song on the album. And it just so happens to feature vocals from The Clark Sisters' "Ha Ya". Y'all know The Clark Sisters vocals are unparalleled. So I encourage you to listen. But back to Jay-Z's lyrics. Yeah, I'll f*ck up a good thing if you let me Let me alone, Becky A man that don't take care his family can't be rich I'll watch Godfather, I miss that whole shit My consciousness was Michael's common sense I missed the karma and that came as a consequence Niggas bustin' off through the curtains 'cause she hurtin' Can't losin' the babies 'cause their future's uncertain Nobody wins when the family feuds We all screwed 'cause we never had the tools I'm tryna fix you I'm tryna get these niggas with no stripes to be official Y'all think small, I think Biggie Image via WENN

Legacy

I mean, it is what it is. And we're introduced to the song with Blue Ivy asking her father, "Daddy, what's a will?" He talks about leaving money to his sisters and other family members and then talks about problematic pathologies passed down from the generations. You see, my father, son of a preacher man Whose daughter couldn't escape the reach of the preacher's hand That charge of energy set all the Carters back It took all these years to get to zero in fact I hated religion 'cause here was this Christian He was preachin' Sundays, versus how he was livin' Monday Someday I forgive him At the end of the day, 4:44 is about Jay-Z. But you can't ignore that Black women are, in many ways, the catalyst of his growth and development. And I appreciate that. When Black men take great joy and delight in insulting us publicly, it's beautiful to see a man so revered and respected by Black men to come out and profess that he needs to be better to us and thereby himself. There is no self actualized Black man without respect for Black women. Tell a friend. Not only is this growth beautiful for Jay-Z and his family and his personal life, it's a moment of cultural significance and progression that cannot be overstated.

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Did Y’all See? Amber Rose Bares All + Does This Father Favor His Lighter Skinned Daughter?

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In this episode of Did Y’all See, we’re chatting about the hottest topics from the month of June. The Amber Rose picture that had Instagram in a tizzy. Our thoughts on the mistrial of Bill Cosby and Al Sharpton’s selfies.

We also discuss the father/daughter moment that went viral. And while it was sweet at first, eventually viewers started noticing that he treats his lighter skinned daughter a bit better than his darker complected daughter.

Plus, there’s a new segment called #WerkItWithTiffany.

Check it all out in the video above.

The post Did Y’all See? Amber Rose Bares All + Does This Father Favor His Lighter Skinned Daughter? appeared first on MadameNoire.

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